Thursday, May 31, 2018
The Perfect Length Crop Top: Style Two

The Perfect Length Crop Top: Style Two




I have to admit this crop top is my favorite. I am feeling all kinds of extra in this outfit. Once I popped on my shades nobody could tell me anything because I know I'm cute in this outfit. If you're new here, my blog is all about me sharing tips on being your best self. I believe confidence is key, and if you find an outfit that just lifts your spirits, then honey walk with your head held high and you better work it.

Yesterday I shared how I went to Forever 21 determined to walk out with a crop top. However, I needed one where it was not going to show off my stomach. Yes, I know that defeats the purpose of a crop top, but I want to be trendy but still stay true to what makes me feel comfortable. I ended up finding two that I styled.







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Wednesday, May 30, 2018
The Perfect Length Crop Top: Style One

The Perfect Length Crop Top: Style One



Crop tops are the latest craze, but I do not know about you but I am not going to wear a crop top that shows off my stomach. I am the number one person to say if you got it, flaunt it. But I don't got it so there is nothing to flaunt. Plus, although I love fashion there are just some fashion trends I will not do. But a last, I found a crop top that I feel comfortable in. I paired this crop top with a high waisted skirt, and I feel covered up yet trendy all at the same time.

I found this outfit at Forever 21. I went in determined to find the perfect crop top, and I ended up finding two that I felt super comfortable in. This one is the first one I styled. I personally love the color yellow, so it was already a winner because of that. The second thing I love about this crop top is that I can wear it with shorts as well, and even pair with a white blazer and a cute dark jean and some white heels. Say what? One top styled three different ways. Yep, that sounds like a winner to me.






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Tuesday, May 29, 2018
How to Style a Graphic Tee

How to Style a Graphic Tee

I love graphic tees. They can easily be dressed up or dressed down. For this particular tee I am styling it for a day outing. One big reason I love styling graphic tees is because you can showcase such positive messages. I picked up this particular tee to describe how I feel about this school year as an educator. A lot has happened this school year where now students are questioning their safety at school. A place where they should feel safe. This school year has been about educators using their voices to make much needed changes. Whether it is changes in how we assess students, school safety, or teacher pay we are stronger than ever in making our voices heard.

I personally like my graphic tees to fit a little long so that I can tie them on the side. By doing that, I get the right fit out of it. I found this particular tee and the cutest and most comfortable shorts ever from Zara. The shorts run a little small I went up a size and got a large in the shorts. They don't feel tight that way and instead I can go on a major food binge and still feel comfortable in my shorts. The tee runs a little big, but it works perfectly since I tie it on the side so I got my normal size which is a medium. 














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Monday, May 28, 2018
Reflecting on my First Year as an Assistant Principal

Reflecting on my First Year as an Assistant Principal

The school year is coming to an end. I have to say that this has been quite an eventful school year. The first day of school consisted of an eclipse, two days later Hurricane Harvey happened, the start of the second semester we were going through a snowiceapocalypse, then Parkland happened, and then a school shooting way too close to home happened in Sante Fe, Texas. Sante Fe is less than a 30 minute drive from where I live. All this happened during my first year as an assistant principal.



If I can best sum up the phases of emotions that go through the roles I have in education it would be this:



As a teacher, I felt I served as many various roles for students. It was important to me that students felt like when they walked into my classroom that it felt like home. You never know what a student may be going home to outside your classroom, and the one positive and best thing that should happen to them each day at school is to feel welcomed, supported, and loved.  When I moved into an instructional support role as an Advanced Academics Specialist I very much felt like a flight attendant. I was there to guide others to where they needed or wanted to grow towards. I trusted others in their roles, but I was there to help motivate and make them even better in their craft. Now as an administrator I feel more like a thousand questions at any point of the day is thrown at me, and the one thing people are looking for is for me to have the answer. So, how did I survive this because in reality I don't know all the answers?

1. Be Yourself


I stayed true in being confident in knowing who I am and not being afraid to be myself. I have met so many other educators who move into administrative roles and they all of a sudden change. I never understood why. As a teacher and instructional support staff I trusted administrators more who were authentic. 

2. Don't Be Afraid to Say, I Don't Know


You will not know all of the answers and others understand that. Now, that does not mean that you don't take the time to find out the answer because no one will understand you not doing that part. But answering a question with I don't know is not a sign of weakness. Instead it's a sign that you are a human being and that is understandable. 

3. If You Say It, Then Mean It


I never wanted to make any promises that I could never fulfill. If I could not do it then I would be honest in saying just that. But if you say you are going to do something then do it. 

4. Teamwork Truly Makes the Dream Work


Get to know the strengths and weaknesses of faculty and staff and capitalize on their strengths. By doing so you actually help them grow those weaknesses into strengths. You cannot do everything alone and part of your role as an administrator is to build leaders. If you are the one doing everything then how will you have future leaders to make the ship run smoothly for students? 

5. Be in the Role for the Right Reasons


Know your why. Let me say that one more time. Know your why. In anything that you do you should take the time to understand your why and that will lead you to your role. My personal why is to ensure that every child has a learning experience that they find meaningful and prepares them for their future endeavors and to accomplish this I believe in growing leaders

Thursday, May 24, 2018
Perfect Summer Shorts for Curvy Girls at Nordstrom Rack

Perfect Summer Shorts for Curvy Girls at Nordstrom Rack

I've got curves and sometimes that makes it difficult to shop. We all have assets to flaunt and areas we need to hide when it comes to shopping for the perfect clothing item, so I know being curvy is not the only body type that finds it difficult to shop for certain items. But a last I have found the perfect shorts I think all curvy girls should have in their closet. They have the perfect amount of stretch, style, and wear that I have ever seen in a pair of shorts. Bonus is they come in sizes small, medium, and large. I typically do better if a short comes in sizes like this versus buying them when they come in number sizes.

Anywho, they are available right now at Nordstrom Rack, and they are a Spring/Summer staple you need to have in your closet. If you have never shopped at Nordstrom Rack let me tell you about this particular retailer. One, they have a 45 day return policy. I feel comfortable buying online knowing that if something does not work it is not going to be a hassle to return. Two, the price point is excellent for my budget. Three, who would not want to shop somewhere you can find great clothing items at an excellent price point? Case closed.

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Wednesday, May 23, 2018
The Perfect Yellow Summer Dress from Forever 21

The Perfect Yellow Summer Dress from Forever 21

I think yellow is the color for the summer, y'all. From makeup to fashion yellow is the latest rage. I've got the perfect yellow summer dress and you will not believe the price. This dress is under $30 and what I love most about this dress is it is quite roomy. I am wearing my normal size which is a medium to give you an idea. I see myself going on a major food binge and still having room in my dress to feel comfortable. Plus, it has pockets. I don't know about y'all, but I love a dress with pockets. There is something magical about having some storage in a dress. Am I right?

I found this dress at Forever 21. I have not shopped here in almost ten years and due to that I had to go into the store to try on everything because I was not sure if my normal size would work with every item. I am so glad I decided to do that because in some items I could wear a medium and other items I had to get a large. It all just depended on the item. To be honest, linen type items are not ones that I gravitate towards. One, you can only get away with linen for a couple months and two, it wrinkles way too easily. I made an exception for this dress because it looked so good on and the yellow color looks great on my skin tone. It does come in white as well, and I think would be perfect for Memorial Day or a summer bride.

Styling this look was easy. I wanted it to be all about the dress. Sorry, y'all my shoes are an oldie from last year. Plus, they are not the most comfortable shoe so it would not be one that I would recommend to anyone. I keep it real, y'all if you did not notice.









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Thursday, May 17, 2018
Loft Style: Patterned Pants Edition

Loft Style: Patterned Pants Edition

Let me tell you about patterned pants and especially these from Loft. One, they are super duper comfortable and two, they can be paired with so many tops. I am talking you can wear these two weekends in a row like I have, but have a whole new look every time. Don't act like you have not worn the same outfit multiple times, but made some subtle changes. We have all done it, and job well done because I believe when you shop for items they should transition to various pieces.

Excuse me while I live in these pants the rest of spring and all of summer.







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Tuesday, May 15, 2018
All About That Gingham Print

All About That Gingham Print

Lately, I have been loving all things gingham print. No, seriously every time I go shopping I am picking up this print because I cannot get enough of it. This top is the bomb diggity because it fits so perfectly and is super comfortable even despite this lovely Houston summer heat. Y'all should know by now I scored this top at a killer deal and won't believe where I found it...JCPenney. Yep, you read that right. JCPenney is one of my favorite merchants to shop at because seriously your dollar stretches so far and they have really cute and fashionable clothing.

I paired this gingham print smock top with Loft Riviera shorts in black. They sell these shorts every year, and I add more to my collection every year in a new color. They are the most comfortable shorts, and I typically get them when they are on sale. The original price is $39.50. Just a tip, this is one item you want to grab in July whenever Loft has their extra 60% off sale prices because these shorts are typically in that sale. You can thank me later.








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